Children are only confused as the parents who raise them. A parent who has the common sense attitude that a boy is going to be a man will know how to handle all circumstances that arise. If the child asks any question of doubt, a father simply has to say is “you are a boy and you will be a man; that’s how God made you.” And with that, the boy will move quite naturally in that direction. End of confusion. End of controversy. Boys need a dad, just as God designed them to have.